My friend and fellow activist Sally Campbell sent me this e-mail in response to a blog I wrote about the phenomenon of attempting to cure people with disabilities, especially children who have no legal rights to object to these sorts of procedures. I was moved to turn this e-mail into a found poem, because so often I feel like my words have no impact on anyone. Thank you, Sally, for reminding me- with your own beautiful words- that although that may seem like the case, it isn't.
Brava!
this
is a magnificent manifesto
in
favor of living fully
with
a disability.
I see a parallel,
I see a parallel,
though
it is in many ways
completely
different with
the hospice movement.
Once it is clear
Once it is clear
that
someone is moving
inevitably
towards death,
it
is better to comfort and celebrate them,
to
allow them to be as fully alive as possible
during
whatever time they have left.
Spending
thousands of dollars
and
suffering many painful,
useless
procedures
in the attempt
to
cure is such a waste.
And
like a disability,
death
is also not something
to
be wished away,
but
something to be accepted
as part of a reality
that
also includes so much else
that is beautiful and meaningful.
If a cure is possible
If a cure is possible
and
it will make enhance a person's life,
of
course, one should go for it.
There comes a time, however,
as
you say, Martina, when it is best
to let the hopeless hope of a cure go
and instead move forward
in
another direction
which is also life-affirming.
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